Selfishness
How to help your kid be less selfish.
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Read MoreThis is always a funny topic to ask athletes. Some are quite eccentric while others are simple and not as noticeable. My pre-game rituals were odd, I will admit and I’m sure you’ll get in a light chuckle. I’d love to hear what you’re pre-game rituals & what makes you unique as an athlete.
Here are mine:
Being a lefty automatically makes me the unique one on the team, and I would say I definitely lived up to it. Many calling me "wild thing" and possessed many characteristics to Charlie Sheen's character Rick Vaughn from "Major League."
As corny as this sounds think about how many athletes you see holding their breathe or grunting as they pitch or hitting a ball. Most of us aren’t taught to properly breathe. It took me half my career to be told my Sophomore year at ASU that I didn’t breathe properly. First I laughed, then realized Karl Keuhl was serious, and he was right. It took me 2 full days of practice to learn how to breathe, because I had to find my timing with the pitches because everything was out of whack. Needless to say I got pretty frustrated in those practices, however it made the difference of me going the distance rather than being gassed in the 4th inning.
How to Breathe:
Why should we breathe so much?
If you can remember to take long drawn out breaths and get over sounding “silly” you will see the difference too. Not to mention when you breathe loud enough, it sounds like the ball is spinning at 100 MPH, so it’s deceiving to the batter as well as the crowd. Take the time for the little things and you will gain more in the long term. KEEP CALM AND BREATHE ON!
This is a tough one. I can’t count on two hands how many times I’ve seen athletes get the yips and never bring themselves out of it. For instance, Myself. I had a heck of a time throwing to first base. It became a mental block because I had failed at it so many times, but once I got over the yips, I stopped focusing on not making a good through and focused on hitting the glove. Sometimes that meant my second baseman had to dig out the ball, she was a stud (thanks Mindy Cowles!).
Ways to fight the yips:
Now that we got this one off our chest, its time to get back at it and start practicing. You will only go as far as you believe you can go. So every day try raising the bar and say “asta la vista, baby” to those yips!
Now we all know at some time or another we are going to get the yips, so lets talk about that base. Throwing is a detailed process, and in baseball commonly referred to as a chain sequence. Without one link of the chain you are without the complete product. This takes a lot of time and should be practiced every day, even if all you have is a net. I have watched too many practices where coaches buzz through the throwing portion, which is a great travesty to these kids. Pitchers especially should work on pitching and throwing to bases, since the mechanics of throwing overhand differs drastically to throwing under hand. Practice pitch-outs as well, you can never be too prepared.
To get stronger at throwing you must strengthen the smaller muscle groups that surround the larger one. This workout will be posted later in my “Throwing Program”, I highly recommend you use bands & the total control ball, especially for catchers & outfielders. Ask Jackie Vasquez about the 2009 World Series, when she gunned someone out at the plate! We all thought the throwing program was lame, and did nothing, however the strength we saw in overall throwing mechanics made all the difference. So it’s all about that base ladies!
Even if icing is merely mental, I generally saw the benefits after a long brutal weekend against our nemesis U of A. Especially during our epic sweep during 2008, where Taryn Mowatt and I went pitch for pitch for 10 innings. The end score 9-8, if there was a theme song it would have been Outkast’s “Bombs over Baghdad, because it got cray cray. For instance, after that game I iced, and the next day my arm didn’t feel tight or sore. Before the next game, which was Wednesday our trainer massaged my arm for about 5 mins to get it loose. You can do this yourself in the shower, as Coach Lee would tell us (SLOHS Softball) “milk your arm.” Still to this day telling H.S girls to “milk your arm” brings a smile to my face, because it’s just hilarious, you know we were all super immature about it too. What this does is it helps to push the lactic acid around so the blood flows and breaks up stiffness.
Now to play devil’s advocate, I read in a Yahoo article about icing one’s arm after competition, and they had valuable information that I suggest you read as well. During exercise you make micro tears in the muscle that cause inflammation, in which they state, “Inflammation is part of the natural healing process and a normal function of our immune system. We can't repair our muscles and tissues without it…Swelling isn't the problem. The problem is lingering waste products as a result of injury. These waste products need to be washed away by driving fluid into the area and flushing waste away using the lymphatic system, a part of the circulatory system that sucks up waste and debris for removal…. Icing literally freezes the lymphatic system in its tracks, preventing it from kick-starting the healing process” (http://sports.yahoo.com/news/pitchers-ice-throwing-prevent-shoulder-173013495.html). They suggest light activity/exercises, proper nutrition, and sleep. If you’re not willing to ice, check out my article on warming down because that too can act as a good way of slowly letting your body cool off with a foster’s freeze touch.
What ever your athlete chooses to do, you won’t be harmed either way- unless you’re trying for hypothermia- in that case behave. Good luck and remember drink lots of water, eat well, and get your 8 hours!
(*Note this is a leak free, waste free way to ice your arm, I learned this trick in Japan!)
How do you warm down? Or do you? This is a common question that I get asked from concerned parents and coaches about how their athletes should "warm down," "should they ice," etc. I didn’t learn how to properly cool down until playing professionally in Japan. Of course there are many different theories and objectives about this matter, however I am going to share with you what I did during my H.S & professional years. My mentality was and still is “How bad do you want it? What are you willing to do to be your best?” Through the years I have adopted, discontinued, and changed my regimen, to fit my needs- this is a process.
During the early years of playing ball, when we were done, we didn’t stretch, jog, or ice… We were just ready to head to the pizza party! Funny fact, to this day I HATE stretching, IT HURTS, but no joke, I have had doctors, trainers, coaches, telling me I will end up in a wheelchair if I don't take care of my body. When I say I lack flexibility, I’m talking... My toes look miles away, and my arms feel like they’re going to snap off when I stretch them- over exaggerating a hair here, but not by much.
One suggestion I would make is forcing yourself to stretch, and teach this coaches early on. How you can make stretching a little more fun, is by introducing the foam roller as early as possible, it is useful for all position players, plus you will see great improvements on speed and agility. It wasn’t until H.S that I formed a regimen to warm down after I pitched and as I got older the better my warm down got.
Here’s a list of what I do to warm down from pitching a game:
1. Jog (SLOW) 10-12 mins in a jacket
-The jacket helps to regulate body temperature so you don’t cool off too fast
2. Stretch (main muscle groups)
-15-30 seconds each stretch
-Focus on arms, shoulders, lower back, quads, hammies, wrists, groin, & Achilles
3. Ice for 15-20 mins
- I hate anything cold, so ice baths and I were not friends. So I understand any resistance to having ice thrown on your arm, especially if the bags drip which is why I recommend the twist top ice bags & ace bandages or the Ice20 Combo Arm Compression Wrap
4. Drink water mixed with a recovery formula
-I suggest BCAA & GLUTAMINE(visit here: http://www.vitaminshoppe.com/p/ bodytech-bcaa-glutamine-6-9-oz-powder/vs-2045#.VKsKdcY-DVo)
-It is a NCAA approved supplement (note: their rules do change frequently, so always double check if you are a collegiate athlete)
5. Always eat 30-60 mins after competition
-Fuel up with lean proteins, veggies, and water. Stay away from starchy, sugary foods.
-Your goal is to replenish the amino acids, electrolytes, and proteins lost during exercise
6. Always bring a change of clothes. After you ice, change so you don’t get a chill
Even in college, I remember watching Danielle Lawrie from Washington run after games. We weren't sure if she was torturing herself after a loss, or there was something funny in the water in Canada. None of the above were true, bottom line was she had been a seasoned olympic athlete that had been trained that warming down was an essential part of staying and maintaining a healthy body. Back then we were pitching way more games too, so I consider myself lucky I stayed so healthy, because I certainly didn't have a sensei. It’s a lot to soak in, I know, and I'm sure it seems like with all these blogs, vlogs, etc there’s always someone adding something to the “to do list.” When implemented it doesn't become a task, it becomes a part of your routine. Routine is everything, and to me I want to be better than my competition, so I like to stay a step ahead. Believe me Japan is killing it over there, and we better get prepared to kick some kobe beef in 2020- or else we'll be taking home Silver again!!!!
Articles based on the warm-down:
3. http://hss.edu/onthemove/warm-up-and-cool-down-tips-for-baseball-players/#.VKsJH8Y-DVo
Challenging myself during the holidays, probably one of the dumber things I've done, however I know I can withstand the pressure! This has been a long time coming. Since my stint of playing professional ball, I have had an extremely unhealthy relationship with food. It has either comforted me in the times of stress and anxiety or Has been completely cut out, which is very unhealthy. It's been months of yo yo'ing and trying to figure out a plan of action, and It took a couple blogs and a mindset later I decided to challenge myself, and take it to the next level. It takes 21 days to create a good or bad habit, and it Lauren Conrad's Blog, was my wake up call. For my plan of action I was inspired by, jerseygirltalk.com. So here it is...
1. Supplements: Vitamin Shoppe
2. Food as Fuel: Planned Meals
3. Workout Plan: Cardio & Weight Training
CARDIO: Walk at Incline 15, speed: 3.0-4.5, for 30 mins x 21 straight days
1. Society: What we see on TV is unrealistic and most celebs have nutritionists, trainers, and people helping style them to perfection.
2. Family of Origin: Sorry mom & dad but we do pick up on your good and bad habits until we are able to formulate our own.
3. Social Crowd: Depending on who you surround yourself with, can be a deciding factor of your lifestyle. If you have people around you keeping you accountable it is a lot easier to stay healthy than friends that are coaxing you to eat a stick of butter. Show me your friends and I will show you, your future.
4. Marketing: In every grocery store, gas station, coffee shop, etc. they set you up for failure. It is a PR/Marketing guru's job to persuade you to buy... Think about it, when you're at a coffee shop you pass up on the baked goods, you get to the counter and they ask "would you like anything else," you pause and think about it. This is a psychological stimulus that you go through telling yourself "well I was a good girl" when you passed it up the first time, you then persuade yourself that you deserve that treat. DARN YOU MARKETING PEOPLE!!!
5. Food: When you saturate food with addicting additives it's hard to pass up those Nacho Cheese Dorito's when you're starving. So it's wise to meal plan, drink LOTS OF WATER, buy a ton of tupperware containers and get to baking Betty Crocker, because this is your health we're talking about!
6. Mental Toughness: I think it takes a lot of mental toughness to say no to the above & fight for a healthy life. There are so many temptations out there and we are only human. I promise though the first 2 weeks are ROUGH, but find those encouraging friends, positive quotes, and fill your fridge with healthy foods, & you will be rewarded by the outcome! It only takes 21 days.
I encourage you all that read this to follow with me and we can keep each other accountable! Post what has helped or hasn't, I'd love to hear from you.
Then as I looked over the situation, I called together the nobles and the rest of the people and said to them, "Don't be afraid of the enemy! Remember the Lord, who is great and glorious, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your homes!" (NLT) ( Nehemiah 4:14 )